My Conflict Management Philosophy Essay

Everyone has to deal with conflict at least once per week. Conflict helps to try and put ourselves in other persons perspective. It is important to ask question and listen the other persons point of view. If we know what their interpretation of the situation is, then it is easier to reach out a solution. I had faced all these by myself before.On the last Sunday afternoon, mother asked me to go out to buy the lunch. Unwillingly, I lot the money that mother gave me then go out from the ho subroutine. I went to the coffee shop that nearby my house to buy the lunch. On the way I go stake to my house, I saw an accident happened at the road that nearby my house.I saw a motorcycle was hit by a gondola. in that location are whatsoever passengers went nearer to see what was happened including me. Surprisingly, I saw my friend, which was Kevin was lie down beside the motorcycle. I quickly go to support him and let him to sit on a side. later on make sure that he did not had any serious injured, then I ask him to explain to me the whole matter.Originally, Kevin wanted to use the straight road, suddenly a car on his right hand side turned to the left. Kevin had no time to dodge then hit by that cars number one wood who did not give signal when she turned to the left. As a result, Kevin was fall down with his motorcycle. Luckily Kevin just has a snap scratch on his hand and leg. On the other hand, the cars door was dent. For the cars driver, she was safe and just was shocked.The cars driver quickly gets out from the car. The cars driver was very angry when she saw her car was dent. She asked Kevin to pay for her loss. Kevin stand up and negotiating with the cars driver. Kevin explained to the cars driver that actually that is her false. According to the roads law, when a driver would like to turn a corner he or she should create to put a signal. Cars driver did not accept Kevins explanation. She not only did not want compensate for the loss of Kevin, instead, sh e asked Kevin to pay for her loss.To solve this problem, Kevin suggested reporting to the natural law. The cars driver accepted this suggestion. While wait for the police, one of passenger with her fast motion, walk to our direction and took out more or less medicine from her first aid kit. Actually, she is a St. John Ambulance member. She used her professional experience to help Kevin to sterilize and put some medicine on his wound.After 10 minutes more, police was came. The police custody asked Kevin and the cars driver narrate the whole process. They explained whole event to the police men. From that, the police men realise that the cars drivers confession had some problems. After that the police men continually asked the cars driver some related questions. The cars driver was leak out what she did when she was driving.The cars driver was honest and told the police men what her did when she was driving. When she was driving, she did not paid upkeep because she was answering t he phone and she did not give signal when she turned to the left. After police men know the whole process, police man told the cars driver that according to the roads law, when a driver would like to turn a corner she should have to put a signal. Then the police man gave the cars driver penalty ticket and asked her not to break the rules again. After received the penalty ticket, the cars driver walked in front of the Kevin. She paid for his loss and said sorry to him. Kevin accepted her apologized.After that, all the people were dismiss. Kevin thanked to me and that passenger, which was member of St John Ambulance for lending him a helping hand. Then, we went back to our home. In conclusion, I had learned that it is very important to discuss among each other whatever anything happen.